When,how and why?

Just finish chatting w/ Mellina (my ex. girlfren)..she asking 3 important question about Bob and me:..oh boy,this gonna be a long one,
1.When?
2.How?
My answer; 3 weeks after working in this office, one of the colleague having his B'day and like all young hip people, he just want to celebrate his b'day by booze,lots of girls and dance through the nite. So he invite all the foreigner and some chinese worker to "Wave Club", 1 arrive 15 minutes before midnite, just around the corner i bump to someone..oucch...(comfy)..and hey that was Bob...with his white polo shirt + baseball caps , i say:" hey...u were here(wat a lame way to say HELLO since everybody and even me know he was the b'day boy best friend). Bob say hi back and just went to other table,while me giving hug and blow kiss to everyone that i know..
15 minutes past midnite,bob was not there anymore,no one know where he go(later after we dating,he told me that he just had to go home as to sleepy and the party was sucks hehe),he do sent me short message" u look beautiful today". That was the starter.
2 weeks later,our sundries manager having a wedding party here in guangzhou,i don't really wanna go that nite,so i skip the party,make some foods (kimchi stew),watch ER. at 21:30,my other colleague (ricky) call me that Boss also come to the party and request me to join the party,so he told Bob & ricky to pick me up,and they will arrive in 15 minutes,OMG i rush to have my 1 minutes shower,wear nicely,5 minutes make up and wait downstairs... in just 2 minutes Bob come,i sat in front and saying Hi to ricky and his girl'fren and to Bob also.
we didn't talk a lot...but i just know..something different..
spending 2 hours of chit chatting,drinking,dancing to Indian music(i have to!!)..Bob message me if i want to go home as he will take me home if i want to.
by that time i was thinking: hell yeah, a bit tipsy now,don't want to take any taxi late at nite.
on the ride back,we just talk and talk about the party and before we reach my apartment,he asked me if he can call me anytime,i say no problem as long it's business hours..hehe..
starting from that nite,we chat in the office,phone conversation at nite,we never go out for dinner or meeting each other after office hours. there is no rush for us to do it anyhow.
2 months later,he ask me out to have dinner,i said Ok,he take me to Pandan (Indonesian cuisine),he told me that he want to try the foods,and me for being Indonesian are too perfect,so he will know what he can eat or not..as he never ever had any indo foods..and beside that,he know i would be thrilled to eat the foods..as i never fond to Chinese foods.
we had: gado-gado,satay ayam,rendang,kari ayam
the dinner lasted for 2 hours.
then he ask me if we can go to Bai Yun mountain (got tips from Ricky,that maybe Bob will take me there and that place for of couples doin the things in the car..hi...) i say No out loud...change to watch movies Please,but later when he take me there, i find the mountain peak was so lovely,it almost similar like Hongkong peak,and of course u can't do "that Things" as it's so bright,old grandma-grandpa was sitting there,children was running ...Ricky such an ass!!! hehe
we head to Beijing Lu mayflower plaza,we buy the ticket for ehm Jay Zhou movies....that secret something22...
The movies was to good to be true..romantic piano and violin music,beautiful view.
15 minutes later,bob grab my hand and whisper to my left ear:" Suryany,can i be with you,can i be the one,can we be together?"
Me: (gluk!!...e.e..e..OK)
then Bob say : Thank You for trusting me and to let me know you more.
he hold my hand for the next 1 hours..
Then we got engaged,and continue..continue...
-that is When and How-

3. Why
My Answer: I'm single,I'm looking for the true love,and Bob are everything that i ever wanted as my Hubby since i was 7(my future husband Should be):
* Handsome
* Tall
* White
* Funny
* Family Lover
* Animal Lover
etc..etc..etc..

standing in front of me..everything i ever i wanted and i feel grateful to have Him in my life .
thanking Nelly to introduce this job to me,and Ricky for the nice comments,and Vineet for the one who give me the courage to " just go with the flow,Sur".
(sound like Oscar speech)