Revised

To make the previous post easy to understand:
1.We already married.
2.Still not held the party in Jakarta(our agenda are on next year,after the Chinese new year).
3.Planning to have baby after 3 years.

*fin*

Been trying to upload new photos from last week Hongkong Trip,but had no time.
Since Bob got back from South Africa,we got busy having dinner with families and relatives(Scratching my head,it's itchy now).Will try to post something tonite,while i'm alone at home and Bob went to have Dinner with 1 of his client hehe..(finger crossed).
these 3 days had a random mixed mood,i'm not happy at all,especially after had a long conversation with my Mom,she insist me to Fast forward the wedding party in Jakarta (and i don't really want to do it this year),she says things that so complex without knowing its hurt my feeling,her anxiety to have grandchild ASAP has pushing my buttons to the limit!!!
I do told her: i'm not gonna do a wedding party to impress other people and i will not raise a child because I had to pleased the family and told her I don't want to fight her will,told her try to understand,this is my life let me be what I am,let me be me.
By the end of the call,i told her to be more open minded and stay away from stupid-low class aunties that poisoning her mind with this conservative idea,i had enough and they will not be invited to my wedding party ,DAMN SURE!!!! i said it Out Loud!!
Bob know that I'm in such a bad mood these days (he know i'm not in a good term when: i let him drink coke during dinner time,i let him smoke anytime he like and i don't get excited when i pass Zara and mango stores),he told me: don't think too much,don't mad at your Mom,don't give pressure to yourself,i always be here for you.
Thanks Bob and thanks a million to my MIL,she encourage me to have a big heart and just relax.

So to make me comeback from the dead Mood,we're going to Macau tomorrow Morning !!...

horray!!!!

Happy Notice

My honey is back from his work/business-trip and i went to Hongkong airport to pick him up and stay there a nite.
but i haven't had time to upload the photos i take,my reward shopping goodies...
I can't even check my desk computer during these few days...gotta be Ms.secretary for Boss..aikh!!!

gonna update soon..

xoxo

It take 27 years to beat my sleeping problem

It all started when i just got home from hospital,i was 3 days old.
From the first night till the next 5 days,every midnite i will scream my lungs out,i will not sleep,i just cry and cry.And i will have a good sleep during the day.
My Grandma then advise my Mom to take me to this friend of her that can see things that normal people can't ( that mean: he's an abnormal? :P).
My Dad was against this Hippo-po0cus stuffs,but my Mom can't bare to see me not getting good sleep every night (including her sleep time),so she take me to this Uncle anyway.
After a few note,reading books,the uncle told my Mom,that i should be baptised into Guan Yin Goddess foster child for my own good and the reason why i cry during nigh time because my old old ancestor spirit has visiting me most of the time(owwwww.....dat was not cool!!)
After that day,i'm doing fine,i play during the day and sleep sweetly during nigh time (weird!!)
But it did not stop there.
as long as i can remember,i never had good sleep unless i was too tired or i was on drug (mostly flu med)..
I will tend to wake up at night..just like that,open my eyes,look around,looking at the windows,the closet,the door,the ceiling,the floor.....for hours
one small sound will alert me right away.
During elementary school,i always sleep with my Sis,if she went to Grandma house or somewhere else,i will drag a mattress to my parents bedroom and sleep there,it did not stop till i'm in high school.
I'm so in tense mood during sleep time,i will woke up and talk or singing every nite during my sleep.
i guess that's all because when i'm 10 years old and we still staying in our old house,i will woke up at 2 in the morning,staring at window to see people shadow on the curtains,sometime 1 shadows sometime more.
and i will get sick the next day and my grandma had to go to temple to burn some papers stuffs and i will get better the next day..

The shadow things stop when i hit my puberty, but instead of shadows,i see people ,people that i never see before,i don't even know them,i only see them a couple of times every year and the same as the shadows things i will get sick (high fever) and my grandma will go to temple again (poor Grandma).
My weirdness has been a common things in my family,Mom told me that maybe I've been to sensitive and maybe the people that I'm seeing just my imagination.
i try to assure my self that it was just an imagination,i try to ignore the willing to woke up in the nite,i just cover my eyes with my pillow..it give me comfort till i fall asleep.

After i move to China for study,i still woke up a few times,still talking to my self,still walking around during sleep time,singing, but it's not every night.

After married life,then i found out that I'm cured (think so),i just need to close my eyes and in 3 minutes i will fall asleep,not waking up in the nite,i can sleep on my own without turning on the lamp or TV ,even with Bob been away from me this couple of weeks i still had a good sleep.

I do still talk and singing ,but never walking or moving around anymore.

it's strange,it does!!!

call my Mom last nite to let her know that now i can have a damn good sleep and wanna keep it that way.She was happy and glad,FiNally!!!

Photo Box

Aya...finally had time to scanned out the photo.
Taken 10 days before Bob's Job trip,Went to see Transporter 3 at the same day.
We both never Ever had our photo box session before...and i insist that day to have one.
Enjoy then!!
(taken at China Plaza 7th Floor,40 RMB)